人家都说，做人要谦虚。
但是一个人到底能够谦虚到什么程度呢？
到底什么叫做谦虚？
那什么又叫做虚伪呢？
有些人谦虚到虚伪，批评别人不够谦虚、不够自量、不够成熟、不够像自己所说得那么好。
做人的确要谦虚，但是没有人喜欢虚伪的人。哪怕曾经是朋友，曾是情人也罢，都会对你“刮目相看”。认识你的人都知道你有本事，上天对你很好，赐给了你样貌与智慧。但是谦虚是一回事，虚伪而是另外一回事了。你认为我的争论缺乏内容、毫无思维、没有逻辑、根本没有说服力、甚至是幼稚透顶。但是我告诉你，我并非信口开河、没凭没据。如果你们认为我的言行处处逼人，那你们就错了，我还有更难听的话还没说出口。我是不想令你们难堪而不去把所有的事都说出来。你们若是识相的就不要自取其辱，免得最后不只是像现在这样连朋友都没得做，甚至是曾经认识过你的朋友都不想和你有任何的瓜葛。当然，你有站在你那边的朋友，我也有支持我的知己。
做人要谦虚，但是偶尔也要对自己公平。当别人给予你夸奖，你不但不领情，还否认别人对你的肯定而贬低自己的身份。那不是谦虚，那是虚伪。谦虚是当别人对你称赞，你坦诚地接受、承认你自己的本事但同时知道一山还有一山高，外面的世界还有比你更有本事的人。任何人都有保护自己的权利。当别人对我做出一些不合理的批评，我也不会迟疑为自己做出辩护，就像任何人都会做地。至于我的辩论对你来说是否有说服力，我根本就不放在心上。因为我打从一开始就没有要说服你的念头。
就如你们所说，你有你在网上日记写作的自由，同样地，我也当然有在我的日记里发言的权利。你可以觉得我非常地自大、骄傲，但是我毫不在乎。因为我根本就没有理由要说服你。你可以认为我处处针对你，但是我告诉你，你根本没有这种本事来让我这么做。我的写作不一定都是在针对你，我的世界不只是有你一个人而已，不要把自己想得那么伟大。你能够因为你的无知和对我的误解而认为我是在故意跟你过不去，我无话可说。我无办法阻止你们的想法与言行，同样地，我在我自己的日记里高谈阔论，你们又能奈我何？
我敢公开我的网上日记，我就不怕会惹来争议，哪怕是无理、无聊的批评。人们不明白的东西，往往就会说它没理由、没道理、没内容、没逻辑。你们认为我不够成熟、无理取闹？但是我说你们最好先自我检讨，特别是那些自以为很了不起、替姐姐说话、以为自己在“行侠仗义”、怂恿无知的朋友来对我做出诽谤、一而再，再而三地挑衅的无知少年。你们不要把事情说到好像我在纠缠你们什么的。我根本已经和你们没有任何的关系。荒谬，现在是你们在我的地盘撒野，你们最好给我搞清楚一点。你们要放肆就给我滚远远地，回到你们自己的地方尽管放肆，不要在这里丢人现眼。惹事的人不是我，是你。你最好还是收敛一点，免得惹祸上身，到时候不要后悔，没有人会同情你的。所谓井水不犯河水，你不犯我，我也懒得理你。但是你们选择做初一，我就做十五。
这条路是你们选的。。。
我能够置之不理，但是我选择奉陪到底。
你们就放马过来吧！
我。。。等着你。
Tuesday, May 22, 2007
Monday, May 07, 2007
Humility VS Hypocrisy
Zion : Zion...zion...why be so hard on yourself just because of these kids?
Zion : Be hard on myself?...No way...it's fun...I enjoy it...It makes me happy=)
Zion : Why bother? Blame it on their upbringing, everybody likes to say that...Just blame their parents for not teaching them well.
Zion : Blame their parents? Nah, I don't believe in that...They only have themselves to blame...
Why blame their parents for their sins?
Why blame their parents for their lousy attitude?
Why blame their parents for what they write on their blogs and other people's blogs?
Anyway I'm sure their parents would love to have a look at what wonderful and creative work their children can produce, if they even care at all, if not well just too bad for them to have parents who don't care.
Yes yes...be humble...be humble...that's what you preach...why not we see some humility from you first...well what more can I say...
All my wonderful friends out there, for those who are curious of what is exactly happening, I would be more than happy to fill you in. From all the 'oh we are so famous' to the maybe now, notorious. From all the 'spamming on this blog is a violation of applicable laws and shit' to all the...you know...I shall let you see it for yourself and the truth will speak for itself...
But hey, don't spam their blogs just because they did that to mine and out of revenge and concern, you degrade yourselves. We are far above that level...oh oh I'm sorry, I have forgotten that I'm supposed to be humble lest I'm not cut out to be in the industry..........whatever.....
To all my beloved friends, just grant me this one last time ok?=)
Anyway,
Sigh...I wonder...no offence to whomsoever but just how someone can tolerate a person, who spews vulgarities..criticises..insults..puts down..instigates spamming..puts up an act under my watchful eyes, living under the same roof when you cannot even agree with this person who has NO F**KING CONNECTION OR WHATSOEVER WITH YOU OR THAT FAMILY MEMBER OF YOURS. OH MY, ZION WHAT WERE YOU THINKING? THEY ARE FAMILY, OF COURSE THEY WILL SPEAK UP FOR EACH OTHER, ESPECIALLY WHEN THAT PERSON IS ALSO GUILTY OF A NUMBER OF THE MENTIONED. JUST TO WHAT EXTENT CAN A PERSON BE BLIND TO THE PLANK IN ONE'S EYE WHEN ONE CAN ONLY SEE THE DUST IN ANOTHER.
TAKE YOUR SISTER IN HAND BEFORE YOU EVEN THINK ABOUT LECTURING ME. I AM NOT YOUR SISTER. I AM WHO I AM. I HAVE NEITHER ANY F**KING CONNECTIONS NOR BUSINESS TO DO WITH YOU OR YOUR SISTER. I DON'T NEED ALL YOUR BIG TALK ABOUT HUMILITY WHEN ALL I CAN SEE IS NOTHING BUT HYPOCRISY. YOU ARE NOT THAT HUMBLE AND GREAT YOURSELF. THERE ARE WONDERFUL TALES THAT ARE NOT EVEN WORTH MY TIME MENTIONING. I DON'T NEED THE PUBLICITY ON YOUR PATHETIC BLOGS. DON'T GIVE ME THE INNOCENT ACT ON MY BLOG, IT LOOKS DISGUSTING AND OH MY DEAR BELOVED FRIENDS, DO REMEMBER THAT ACCORDING TO SOME PEOPLE, SPAMMING OF BLOGS VIOLATES THE LAW...'OOOOOOO AAAAAAAA...SO SCARY ISN'T IT?'...LOOKS LIKE IT'S ALWAYS WONDERFUL AND HANDY HAVING LAWYER FRIENDS=)
Don't F**king give me the F**king bullshit. You want a piece of me? Come and get it. YOU WANT SHIT? I'LL F**KING GIVE YOU F**KING SHIT! I'LL F**KING PLAY IT TO THE F**KING END WITH YOU! F**KING KIDS. JUST BRING IT ON!!!
Anyway, anonymous, the answer to your question is no, I don't care a damn about the past at all. People change and it was my choice to change. You have no idea how deep the iceberg goes. You might just yet find out more about it.
Just as pearls are to pigs, my words fall on deaf ears. Birds of a feather flock together. THEY WANNA F**K AROUND WITH ME, THEY'LL F**KING GET WHAT THEY WANT!
Zion : Be hard on myself?...No way...it's fun...I enjoy it...It makes me happy=)
Zion : Why bother? Blame it on their upbringing, everybody likes to say that...Just blame their parents for not teaching them well.
Zion : Blame their parents? Nah, I don't believe in that...They only have themselves to blame...
Why blame their parents for their sins?
Why blame their parents for their lousy attitude?
Why blame their parents for what they write on their blogs and other people's blogs?
Anyway I'm sure their parents would love to have a look at what wonderful and creative work their children can produce, if they even care at all, if not well just too bad for them to have parents who don't care.
Yes yes...be humble...be humble...that's what you preach...why not we see some humility from you first...well what more can I say...
All my wonderful friends out there, for those who are curious of what is exactly happening, I would be more than happy to fill you in. From all the 'oh we are so famous' to the maybe now, notorious. From all the 'spamming on this blog is a violation of applicable laws and shit' to all the...you know...I shall let you see it for yourself and the truth will speak for itself...
But hey, don't spam their blogs just because they did that to mine and out of revenge and concern, you degrade yourselves. We are far above that level...oh oh I'm sorry, I have forgotten that I'm supposed to be humble lest I'm not cut out to be in the industry..........whatever.....
To all my beloved friends, just grant me this one last time ok?=)
Anyway,
Sigh...I wonder...no offence to whomsoever but just how someone can tolerate a person, who spews vulgarities..criticises..insults..puts down..instigates spamming..puts up an act under my watchful eyes, living under the same roof when you cannot even agree with this person who has NO F**KING CONNECTION OR WHATSOEVER WITH YOU OR THAT FAMILY MEMBER OF YOURS. OH MY, ZION WHAT WERE YOU THINKING? THEY ARE FAMILY, OF COURSE THEY WILL SPEAK UP FOR EACH OTHER, ESPECIALLY WHEN THAT PERSON IS ALSO GUILTY OF A NUMBER OF THE MENTIONED. JUST TO WHAT EXTENT CAN A PERSON BE BLIND TO THE PLANK IN ONE'S EYE WHEN ONE CAN ONLY SEE THE DUST IN ANOTHER.
TAKE YOUR SISTER IN HAND BEFORE YOU EVEN THINK ABOUT LECTURING ME. I AM NOT YOUR SISTER. I AM WHO I AM. I HAVE NEITHER ANY F**KING CONNECTIONS NOR BUSINESS TO DO WITH YOU OR YOUR SISTER. I DON'T NEED ALL YOUR BIG TALK ABOUT HUMILITY WHEN ALL I CAN SEE IS NOTHING BUT HYPOCRISY. YOU ARE NOT THAT HUMBLE AND GREAT YOURSELF. THERE ARE WONDERFUL TALES THAT ARE NOT EVEN WORTH MY TIME MENTIONING. I DON'T NEED THE PUBLICITY ON YOUR PATHETIC BLOGS. DON'T GIVE ME THE INNOCENT ACT ON MY BLOG, IT LOOKS DISGUSTING AND OH MY DEAR BELOVED FRIENDS, DO REMEMBER THAT ACCORDING TO SOME PEOPLE, SPAMMING OF BLOGS VIOLATES THE LAW...'OOOOOOO AAAAAAAA...SO SCARY ISN'T IT?'...LOOKS LIKE IT'S ALWAYS WONDERFUL AND HANDY HAVING LAWYER FRIENDS=)
Don't F**king give me the F**king bullshit. You want a piece of me? Come and get it. YOU WANT SHIT? I'LL F**KING GIVE YOU F**KING SHIT! I'LL F**KING PLAY IT TO THE F**KING END WITH YOU! F**KING KIDS. JUST BRING IT ON!!!
Anyway, anonymous, the answer to your question is no, I don't care a damn about the past at all. People change and it was my choice to change. You have no idea how deep the iceberg goes. You might just yet find out more about it.
Just as pearls are to pigs, my words fall on deaf ears. Birds of a feather flock together. THEY WANNA F**K AROUND WITH ME, THEY'LL F**KING GET WHAT THEY WANT!
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